Child Custody Lawyers Serving Nassau County, NY

Focused on What Matters Most—Your Children

At Feinman & Gellman, we understand that few legal matters are more emotionally charged than those involving your children. Whether you're facing divorce or are separating outside of marriage, child custody can quickly become one of the most difficult and sensitive issues to resolve.

Our experienced child custody lawyers in Garden City are here to help you protect your parental rights while making decisions that truly serve the best interests of your child. We work with families throughout Nassau County to create stable, thoughtful parenting plans—while also being fully prepared to advocate for you in court when necessary.

We offer a free consultation to help you understand your options. Call us at (516) 751-2444 or schedule your consultation online today.

What Types of Custody Are Recognized in New York?

In New York, custody is divided into two main categories: legal custody and physical custody.

• Legal custody gives a parent the right to make major decisions about a child’s education, medical care, religion, and general welfare.
• Physical custody refers to where the child lives most of the time—typically more than 51% of the time with one parent.

Our Garden City custody attorneys will help you pursue the arrangement that makes the most sense for your child’s well-being and your family’s future.

What’s the Difference Between Sole and Joint Custody?

Sole legal custody allows one parent to make all important decisions for the child without needing input from the other parent. This can be appropriate in situations where communication is limited or one parent is unable to co-parent effectively.

Joint legal custody means both parents share decision-making responsibilities. This arrangement is common when both parents are capable of working together and staying involved in their child’s life. Joint custody agreements typically include equal access to school and medical records and shared authority over big decisions.

If you’re unsure what arrangement is right for you, we can help you weigh the pros and cons based on your circumstances.

What If We Can’t Agree on Major Decisions?

In some cases, parents might not be able to agree on major issues like healthcare or education. That’s where final decision-making authority comes in. One parent may be designated as the “tie-breaker,” or the court may appoint a neutral third party (such as a therapist or parenting coordinator) to help resolve disagreements.

Our Nassau County family law attorneys can help you structure a custody plan that minimizes future conflict and protects your parental rights.

Understanding Physical Custody and Parenting Time

Physical custody arrangements establish where the child lives and when. Even if one parent has primary custody, the other parent is typically granted parenting time or visitation rights. These arrangements are outlined in a detailed parenting plan, which also covers holidays, school breaks, vacations, and daily logistics like drop-offs and pick-ups.

If you’re navigating both custody and financial matters, be sure to explore our page on Child Support in New York, which often goes hand-in-hand with physical custody arrangements.

How Do Courts Decide Custody in New York?

Judges in Nassau County and across New York base custody decisions on what is in the best interests of the child. This involves a number of factors, including:

• The child’s age and developmental needs
• Each parent’s ability to provide a stable home
• The child’s preference (especially if they’re older)
• Each parent’s willingness to encourage a relationship with the other
• Any history of abuse, neglect, or substance abuse
• Existing parenting responsibilities and routines

We’ll help you present a clear, compelling case that reflects your dedication to your child’s well-being.

Can My Child Choose Who They Live With?

While a child’s opinion matters—especially as they get older—it is not the only factor. Children in New York don’t have the final say, but their preferences may carry more weight if they are mature enough to express their wishes clearly. Ultimately, the court will still make a decision based on the child’s best interests.

What If My Child Refuses Visitation?

Parents are expected to support and encourage visitation, even if a child resists. If your child refuses to see the non-custodial parent, the court may recommend reunification therapy with a licensed professional to rebuild trust and communication. We’ll guide you through your options while protecting your child’s emotional needs.

Do I Have to Go to Court to Resolve a Custody Dispute?

Not necessarily. While some custody disputes require court intervention, many families reach workable solutions through mediation or collaborative law. Our Garden City custody lawyers always prioritize cooperation and clear communication—but when necessary, we’re fully prepared to represent you in Nassau County Family Court.

To learn how custody factors into a broader divorce case, visit our Divorce Law Services page for more helpful insight.

What Is a Parenting Plan?

A parenting plan is a formal document that spells out each parent’s time with the child, including weekday schedules, weekends, holidays, and vacations. It also addresses transportation, communication between parents, and how changes will be handled. A solid parenting plan helps avoid future disputes and gives children the consistency they need.

What’s the Difference Between a Parenting Plan and a Custody Agreement?

A custody agreement outlines legal and physical custody, while the parenting plan dives into the day-to-day logistics. Together, these documents ensure that both parents understand their roles and responsibilities and that the child has a stable, predictable routine.

We’re Here to Support You and Protect Your Family

At Feinman & Gellman, we bring a balanced approach to every custody case—one that combines strategic legal advocacy with the compassion families need during times of transition. Whether you're working toward a peaceful resolution or need strong representation in court, our Garden City child custody lawyers are here for you every step of the way.

Call (516) 751-2444 or schedule your free consultation today. Let’s create a plan that protects your children and gives you peace of mind.